For peace to prevail at home, women should start seeing his other wives as sisters, rather than enemies. It’s a sacrifice every woman must make, for the sake of her husband. Don’t say you’d rather be single. It’s like crawling into a tiger’s stomach, instead of an alligator’s. …

None of us get to choose our spouse. The club committee decides on that. They take care of everything, from accommodation to food to love. But, of course, if we don’t like the guy, we can always refuse.

The group has 1,200 members, three-quarters of whom are female.